Let's have a WHAT? —A presexual agreement?
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LET’S HAVE A WHAT? —A PRE-SEXUAL AGREEMENT?
HACKENSACK, NJ: Don’t you think that before a couple continues having bad sex each ought to know what the other really wants in bed? Interesting question—wouldn’t you say? Now, consider this line: “I’m going to tell you what I look forward to in sex and what I don’t particularly care for, okay? …When I’m finished, maybe you can tell me the same about yourself…” How many of us can make that pitch to an intimate partner? Let’s face it: Such sentiments are not easy to articulate.
Enter a book that promises to assist sex partners over this communication hurdle—IT’S MY CUP OF SEX, The Handbook Of Pre-Sexual Agreement—For The Sexually Bold Only! This title (just released from Kokerflow Press, a small publishing entity in New Jersey) is an eighty-page workbook through which partners can be made aware of each other’s sexual likes and dislikes and, hopefully, work out mutually satisfying sexual compromises. It is a by-product of a series of one-on-one informal interviews the author conducted with a cross section of men and women, one of whom—the author recalls—said: “Once my husband locked my hands behind my back to have sex with me. I panicked—fought—cried! I hate it to be restrained in any fashion!” The foregoing statement influenced a pair of declarations in that section of the book titled: This is how I am basically, ok? One declaration reads: (In My Cup of Sex…) I will not have sex with you if you’d want to restrain me in any way. ME / UN. The other reads: (In My Cup of Sex…) I love being restrained during sex. ME / UN. (What is the ME / UN all about? As explained in the how-to-use section of the book, one simply circles ME following a declaration if it matches one’s sexual preference or style. If one is unsure of the declaration—has never really thought of it or may well consider it at some point in time, one then circles the prefix UN for Unsure.)
Along with an author-introduction, the contents include sections such as: Agreeing on where we’ll have sex; Agreeing on foreplay; and, Agreeing on sexual positions.
For more information about IT’S MY CUP OF SEX, The Handbook Of Pre-Sexual Agreement—For The Sexually Bold Only! log onto www.itsmycup.com
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