How To Meet Women Online: The Hidden Power Of Message Subjects

Added: (Tue Feb 10 2009)

Pressbox (Press Release) - Most women receive 20-50 of messages a day, very attractive ones even more, in their profile inbox. If you know a lady with a profile and asked her about her inbox, you would find out that a huge majority of those messages say STUPID things. Things like you're hot (how shallow can you get?), you're gorgeous, so add me on blabla@whatever.com (if you're desperate and needy, use this one) or I don't know if you think I'm your type, but I would like to give you the world if only you date me (there isn't a bigger wussy out there than this one).

Your idiot competition think they stand out with messages like these. But they're WRONG and they OVERLOOK something, something SUPER important if they want to stand out in the crowd and meet a new women. You see, they think a woman will DIRECTLY see their message and they couldn't be more wrong. Because does any given person see in his Inbox BEFORE the content of a message? Check out your hotmail, or gmail or whatever right now and you'll know that it's the message SUBJECT!

Here's the deal: scientists in the marketing department have done countless studies on the effect of the headline of an advertisement versus the actual content of the advertisement. The result? Headlines that drew ATTENTION to themselves BOOSTED response with 10 to 20%!

Doesn't sound that great? Wait until you hear the numbers: what if you sent 20 messages to random women in a week (that's 3 per day) and you received 2 replies when you still used a bad subject, guess how much you'll receive with a good subject? 2 to 4 messages more then before, which is DOUBLING or TRIPLING your results!

But how do you make a compelling subject? Well, there are ways to do it, and ways NOT to:

The Killer Subjects That Will RUIN Your Chances: What NOT To Do

Not only are 99% of the messages women receive almost EXACT copies of all the other ones, imagine what the general male public does with the message subject?

- They use: NO subject at all because they never took the time, 40% of the messages has no subject,
- Or they use: the greetings subject (hi, hello, hi there, etc.), 50% of the total amount
- Or: the cheezy subject. What's a cheezy subject? A shallow compliment based on her looks (you're beautiful), a joke, an overly used quote from a movie or song (I'll be back or whatever) and pick up lines (is having missing an angel because, or WORSE.) This one's used about 10% of the time.

Do you see how only INCLUDING a subject will work wonders for you?

Here are some examples of lame subjects from one of my female friends' profile inbox:

- Subject: you are a perfect ten
- Subject: hello maria
- Subject: Shame on you (Your a theif, you stole some stars from the night and made them your eyes)
- Subject: hi
- Subject: HEY HOW R U
- Subject: 3 ducks walked into a bar

Let's pretend you were a woman. Receiving 50 messages per day with 25 saying hello, 20 having no subject and 5 being cheezy. Multiply that with a factor of 365, which represents a YEAR of course. How long would it take for you to go NUTS and IGNORE the hi and no subject messages for example? My guess: you would stop within the first week = around 175 hello subjects, 140 times no subject and 35 times a cheezy subject!

Here's a hidden gem for you: why not set up a fake female profile for yourself on a social networking site? See it as a social experiment. Take a look at her inbox once a week and read the first 20 messages (and their subjects) everytime you login, and you're about to be shocked. Shocked at how EASY it is to get an unfair advantage over the competition by simply INCLUDING a subject and saying something ELSE then Hi.

Subject Shortcut #1: Don't do no subject, a simple greeting or a cheezy subject
You'll get SKIPPED when she's going through her inbox, it's a sign of you NOT reading her profile and if you're cheezy by being interested in her looks only and not who she is, you will turn her off BIG TIME.

Subject Shortcut #2: The Language Barrier
You may think you'll get her attention better by turning on your Caps Lock and WRITING BIG WORDS, but to her? You're dying to get some attention, being the needy, desperate guy that you are. Next to this, try reading a book that's TYPED UP USING CAPS LOCK ONLY ALL THE FRIGGIN' TIME, ANNOYING ISN'T IT?

You may think talking slang like 2night, l8, well hello thur, how r u and so on are cool, but the only women you'll attract with those are women with dyslexia or women who think they need to be ghetto to earn a living or live their lives.

Next to this, women who aren't down with the Instant Messenger slang where late becomes l8 and today becomes 2day, will have a hard time reading your stuff. There are more then enough women who don't have the time to sit behind the computer that much, so don't underestimate this one.

So check spelling, make sure the caps lock is NOT on, and I almost forgot something here. Using the ! or ? mark 3 times in a row is trying to be a big bady who wants attention too.

How To Scan Her Profile For Things To Tease And Create Attraction With

Twenty to fifty times a day, all year long, women are being BORED her to death with how predictable, desperate and cheezy the messages from men are. Meanwhile, those beautiful, intelligent women crave excitement and want to meet someone FUN.

By teasing her, you grab her ATTENTION by the throat (because it's a message FOR her, ABOUT her, and not a you're pretty message that you can use for every single woman surfing the Web.) If you're able to grab that attention, she'll OPEN your message, and a reply to your awesome content is just around the corner.

You'll also let her know that you're not intimidated by her looks (like the needy and desperate guys), in fact, you're forgetting all about her looks and tease her with her IDENTITY. Why? Because even the most beautiful woman on earth wants to be appreciated for more than a pair of you know what.

Thirdly, teasing a woman playfully will make her laugh and giggle (because everybody likes a challenge, a sense of humor, and sexual tension).

Finally, you're letting her know that you sat down took the time to READ her entire profile, because anyone can send her a cheezy or shallow message after seeing her photo, but that's NOT showing genuine interest (that's showing shallow interest to get laid). Talking to her about her personality requires you to be personal with her, and to read her profile. Much more effective I would say.

Here's how: look at her profile and look for hobbies, passions, addictions, likes, activities or interests you can respond to: foods, drinks, idols, movies, TV shows, nothing's safe from YOUR teasimg. Key insight: everybody has things they love to do, see, hear, etc. but NO ONE wants to overdo it, since ADDICTIONS are perceived to be a bad thing by society. Guess what you're going to accuse them off? Yep!

Here are some examples to show you what I mean:

- She loves horses> SUBJECT: Heyyy horse junkie :P
- Her favorite movie is The Godfather> SUBJECT: Hello miss Corleone :P
- Her favorite food is pasta> SUBJECT: Heyyy Italy freak :P
- She's a Redbull energy drink lover> SUBJECT: Heyyy cafein addict :P

She'll instantly know what you're talking about and as you can see, all it takes is a couple of words. First you greet, then you mention her passion and then you give it the addiction level status using words such as: junkie, addict, worshipper, freak, maniac, groupie, etc. and let her know it's in the spirit of playfulness. A simple way for doing that is using the power of the emoticon, the :P. What does it stand for? Just type it in on an Instant Messenger and you'll see a face sticking his tongue out. There you go: a playful face.

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